Ten Dating tips and Advice for singles

Top 10 Dating Tips
Dating Tips and Advice for Singles
Whether you are new to the dating scene, are
reentering the dating scene, or are a serial dater, you
can use dating tips and advice. No one is a dating
expert – even the most beautiful and wealthy people
all struggle with matters of the heart. Everyone can
learn something about how to date more, how to
attract the types of people we want to attract, and
how to make sure initial chemistry blooms into an
enduring relationship.
The truth is, there are no magic formulas, no fail-
proof tricks, no cunning ways of trapping Mr. or Miss
Right. There are however some essential facts that
you should always bear in mind along the way.
Dating tips are just that — tips, not one-size-fits-all
guarantees. Different tacks will work for different
people. It depends on the situation, who we are,
where we are in our lives, etc. However, there are
some threads of advice that are fairly universal and
can benefit anyone who practices them:
Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Get prepared for dating. If you really want to
succeed in the dating game, be ready to commit
to dating. Half-heartedness won’t work. In fact, it
won’t even get you half-way. If you really want to
date, put some effort into it. Do some research
and think about what you want out of dating.
Prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we
all face at some point in dating and commit not
to give up.

2. Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking
your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get
fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and
begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty
treatment. Though it will not find you a date in
itself, you will feel a million times more confident
about yourself, and others can sense that.

3. Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes
and even a whole new look. Get your image right,
one that you can manage and live with, but one
that flatters you. Don’t try to be someone you’re
not, but amplify and accentuate your positives.
Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or
cardigans and spruce yourself up. Your date will
appreciate that you demonstrated some effort.

4. Think about what you want to gain from dating
and what timeframes you expect. Do you see
yourself married within 2 years? If you do, then
approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid
back and don’t take dating too seriously then ask
yourself some honest questions about why you
are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is
purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to
be honest with those you hope to date.

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5. Surround yourself with people who will support
your dating aims. By following the first four tips
you will feel better and be more focused. Don’t
sabotage this by sitting around with friends who
are negative about love and relationships (often
the married ones). Start attending social
functions frequented by singles. Sitting alongside
couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not
necessarily where you need to be right now.

6. Choose those you have a good chance of dating.
Be realistic. In other words, your dating is based
on the whole package you present as well as just
your personality. If you are looking for a glamour
girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and
gorgeous, great! Just know that others will expect
you to be the same.

7. Join clubs, societies, sports events, drama
groups — anything that might help you meet like-
minded potential partners. You will not meet
people by staying indoors and playing video
games – many have tried and failed at this
approach.

8. Take time off from dating occasionally if it’s not
going well or causing dating fatigue. Recharging
your batteries and keeping confidence and
optimism levels high is an absolute must. We all
hit rough patches, but don’t let your search for
love become a death march. Date in phases if
necessary.

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9. Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting
people and socializing and spending time in the
company of stimulating individuals who may or
may not play a bigger part in your life down the
road. The fact is, most people have something
interesting to offer. While you may not be out on
the dating scene looking for new friends, you
may well find one or two fabulous people along
the way.

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10. Never make yourself too available. People like
mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase
when dating. As part of keeping up the mystery,
do not sleep with your dates early on. The longer
a person is made to chase and fall for you within
reason, the more likely that love may blossom.
(And yes, this goes for both men AND women!) If
the chemistry peaks too early, your emotions
may never have time to catch up and the
relationship will eventually wither away.

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