Why we masturbate; Precise analysis on meaning, causes, benefits and remedies of masturbation

Why We Masturbate…
Precise analysis on meaning, causes,benefits and remedies of masturbation.

Thought Catalog wrote;
I hate masturbating because I feel terrible after I do it.
But I still do it every day. Why? Why does anyone
masturbate? Think about it. Even if you like it—even
if you don’t experience The Autoeroticism Comedown
—it’s a strangely normal activity. Are we really so
horny that we need to jerk off every day?

Yes. We are that horny. And it’s socially inappropriate
to display such feelings, so we do it either privately to
ourselves or drunkenly to other drunk people. The
confines of our society have caused us to tip-toe into
our bedrooms, lock the door behind us, and
vigorously stroke our penises until we feel some sort
of relief.

Is that a bad thing? I don’t know. You decide. I can’t
concentrate, anyway. I’m trying to find a viable POV
Source: Thought Catalog

Anyways
Masturbation is the sexual stimulation of one’s own
genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure,
usually to the point of orgasm. The stimulation
may involve hands, fingers, everyday objects, sex toys
such as vibrators , or combinations of these.
Source: Google

Now, why do we masturbate?
It’s not that simple an answer, a lot of reasons are associated to this act, let me highlight some.
* Addiction to pornography
* Fear of having sex even at need
* Uncontrolled infidelity
* Excessive sexual urges
Teenagers, youths, even adults engage in this act, most time it begins like a shadow and continues until it becomes an addiction.

According to John, there are some benefits in masturbation
For instance, the ease of stress and more importantly is helps find sleep but these reasons does not disregard it’s harm and isn’t enough an excuse for indulgence.

When you masturbate, is it not true that; Your arousal levels drop from 100% to less than 0%,
if that’s possible. You no longer have any interest in
the porn you were watching, or girls/boys in general.
You are laying in a puddle of semen and remorse.
? {*thought catalog}.

Masturbation leads to regression, lose of self-belief, it makes one feel dejected especially when caught. It is shame.

But to every headache is paracetamol, here comes some useful approach on how to stop the act.

1
Find another outlet for your time and energy. Fill
your life with engaging activities. The excitement of
doing something different can help replace the urge
to masturbate, and you’ll have a go-to distraction
next time you’re tempted. Try some of these
options: Be creative, play sports, etc

2
Limit your solitude. If you masturbate frequently
because you feel lonely, find ways to be as socially
engaged as possible. This means that you should
join as many clubs or activities as you can, accept
and give more invitations to people, and go out of
your way to make more friends. If you want to date
someone, consider asking a friend to set you up or
join an online dating site.

3
Stop watching porn on your computer. One of the
reasons you may be masturbating so much is that
you know that you can access porn within seconds
if you want to. However, if you don’t have the
willpower to stop looking at the porn on your own,
then you may have to take other measures to get the
job done:

4
Be persistent and patient. Stopping a masturbation
addiction won’t hit you like a lightning bolt. It’s a
process that requires commitment, and you might
make mistakes or relapse on occasions. The real
struggle is persevering, so commit now that you
won’t let little mistakes stand in your way.

5
Know when to seek help. If you’ve tried everything
and just can’t seem to get your addiction under
control, it might be time to tell someone else about
your problem and ask for assistance. Don’t feel
ashamed, and remember that many people have
similar problems like an addiction. Seeking help is a
brave action, and most people you ask will see it as
such.

{Source: WikiHow}

Article written and compiled by Micheal Ace
©ACEworld

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